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Clubbing | Party
and Play | Good Housekeeping!
 Clubbing
Dancing
for hours on end is an end in itself for many guys. Often, it’s
where people get introduced to the drug.
Things to watch out for:
Dehydration – not having enough water in your system. This
is particularly of concern for guys who are taking X and crystal
together. Did you
know, most X has speed in it? Crystal use can increase risk for
heart attacks, particularly when
exercising vigorously on the dance floor for hours on end.
Strategies to reduce potential harms:
Drink lots of water. Alcohol and caffeine will make you piss more which
is great for water sports but bad for hydration. Not every dance
space has fountains, but tap water from the bathroom does not differ
from faucet water from the kitchen. Drink lots!! Wear clothes that
allow you to sweat. Polyester is not only hideous but it also won’t
let your body breathe properly which will increase your body temperature,
which will dehydrate you more. If you’re gonna dance all night,
take lots of breaks, both to unwind a little and rehydrate. Sometimes,
taking a walk through the parking lot will give you a needed breath
of fresh air and a bit of an adventure! If there’s a history
of heart disease in your family, be sure to have a doctor check out
your ticker no matter what your age. If your father or brother had
a heart attack prior to age 55 – or your mother or sister had a heart
attack before 65 – definitely find out how much stress your heart can
handle.
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 Party
and Play
PNP
or ‘Party and Play’ means doing speed (the party)
and having sex (the play). It can last for several hours or days
of near continuous sexual activity.
Things to watch out for:
Breaks in the skin: All that friction during long
sex sessions can cause abrasions. Your dick can feel like it has been sunburned,
your nipples can feel like you ran a marathon without a jog bra and your
asshole can feel like the TransBay Tube. All this activity
can increase your chances
of exchanging an STD, including HIV, but it will also just leave you sore
for a few days. Condom Breakage – For some reason they have yet to develop
a condom that will last for 9 hours of continuous fucking! Not eating or sleeping
for several days plays havoc with your entire body and increases susceptibility
to all diseases. Sharing toys – dildos, butt plugs, that type of thing – can
also mean you're sharing diseases. Before anything goes in you, make sure
it's clean. Most guys notice that their standards for sex partners change
between
3pm and 3am. Well, on a three-day jag, your impeccably high standards in
sexual partners can change from Mr. Right for the Night, to Mr. Right Now,
only to
end up with Mr. Available. And who knows the sexual health of these people?
Find out! And of course, you end up being Mr. Available to someone else.
A multi-day sex jag can undo several months at the gym, a fifty dollar hair-cut,
hundreds of dollars of skin and hair care products, and the hours you spent
selecting the right outfit. For heavy sexual scenes (heavy SM, role play,
fisting
etc), especially with relative or complete strangers, the more loaded you
are, the more you can get lost in the scene which, of course, is one of its
attractions.
Generally, it is a good idea to keep at least one foot in reality just in
case the fantasy takes a nasty turn and you need to break the scene.
Strategies to reduce possible harm:
Change sexual positions often, increase
the amount of lube that you use or put on new condoms on some prearranged
schedule. Set a timer to remind yourself to give your body what it needs:
water, medications,
a rest, some food, etc. You can use an alarm, timer, when a CD or video stops
playing, or timed lights. Not recommended: candles (fire hazard), or relying
on a non-alarm clock (Do you really think you could remember a target time
or look at the clock regularly?). Cock rings, when left on for hours, can
cause major
problems down there. Best advice: use a leather tie and loosen it every once
in a while. Set target limits for how long you want to binge before your
binge begins. You can control this by controlling your available cash. Giving
the
rest of your available cash, credit and ATM cards to a trusted friend may
work and will certainly prove if you can trust your friend. A better method
would
be to put your money
and plastic in a safe deposit box on Friday so it’d be difficult to
get until Monday. Drugs, heavy sex (S-M, role playing or fisting) and strangers
can be a very dangerous combination. Don't get into anything too heavy with
a stranger or someone you don't trust. Even if you set limits, if both or
all
of you are on drugs, your limits may go out the window.
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 Good
Housekeeping!
Frequently a solo activity. Pretty self-explanatory.
Things to watch out for:
Wrinkling and abrasions: Most house cleaning materials
are harsh on the skin. Toxic fumes – Harsh chemicals like bleach and
ammonia emit gasses that can be dangerous if inhaled. Don't pass out in the
fury of your Joan Crawford scouring session! Make sure you open windows and
properly ventilate your home.
Strategies to reduce potential harms:
Wear gloves, use skin moisturizers, open
windows, take oxygen breaks and drink lots of water. Set a timer – decide
how long you want to clean.
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